BEING SINGLE
Single means you have the time to grow and be the person you
want to be.
Single gives you space to grow. Sometimes, it is harder to grow
when you are too close to someone. Trees are planted far
apart so they can spread their branches and become strong
as they mature.
Single means learning to live by yourself. However, that is no
more difficult than learning to live with somebody else.
Single means freedom. You are free to spend a week’s vacation
on the beach, to take computer courses, to work late on an
interesting project, to spend the day in bed with a good book
or simply with a person who has read one.
Single means learning not to need a man/woman to make your
life meaningful but learning to live with a man/woman because
you want to be with him/her.
Single means that sometimes you will wonder why you will bite
your lip and feel wistful and wonder if marriage is better.
Ironically, yet quite happily, single is feeling good about being
in control of your life. It is liking and respecting who you are
and why you are.
Single is realizing that being married is not necessarily better,
it is merely different.
Single means that there could be something wonderful around the
corner and you can take advantage of it.
Single means you are free to love again.
Whatever decisions that you have made in your life is part of
your growing experience… part of life. Whatever decisions
that you have to make will influence or affect your future. So
think hard before deciding on certain things…
and PRAY TO GOD and HE will show you the way.
